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virus: sebby's g/f betrays him!!!
« on: 2003-12-18 03:44:20 » |
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...listen to this; sebby plans big adventure north including visit at
monteray aquarium, passing through S.F. and seeing the redwoods. followed
up by visiting my mother and sister and family in the san juan
islands...plenty of shopping and boating etc... and she sidelines me for 2
or 3 days(a critical amount of time) so she can appease the request of her
nephew - to go with her to see some stupid nutcracker performance!!!! ok,
the kids mom(her sis) died a year ago and he's 8...but truly he seems to
care more about video games and his friends than musicals. in the past 10
months he and she have gone out of their way to see each other exactly zero
times....including turning down 2 of her invitations to visit us here
because he was with friends or some such crap. these plans of mine are so
massive that i am truly truly truly offended and pissed off. im seriously
considering...sort of already done...breaking up over the matter. i mean
what if i had kidney surgery planned?....would she cancel on me to go watch
a lakers game on tele with the kid? i cant handle this degree of
'sidelining'. am i wrong? i dont think so, but if someone does, pray tell.
DrSebby.
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Re:virus: sebby's g/f betrays him!!!
« Reply #1 on: 2003-12-18 06:24:44 » |
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[meta]
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I suggest you go there, register, and post this in the "Seduction" forum.
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RE: virus: sebby's g/f betrays him!!!
« Reply #2 on: 2003-12-18 06:56:23 » |
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> -----Original Message-----
> From: owner-virus@lucifer.com [mailto:owner-virus@lucifer.com] On
Behalf
> Of Dr Sebby
> Sent: 18 December 2003 1044
> To: virus@lucifer.com
> Subject: virus: sebby's g/f betrays him!!!
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> ...listen to this; sebby plans big adventure north including visit at
> monteray aquarium, passing through S.F. and seeing the redwoods.
followed
> up by visiting my mother and sister and family in the san juan
> islands...plenty of shopping and boating etc... and she sidelines me
for
> 2
> or 3 days(a critical amount of time) so she can appease the request of
her
> nephew - to go with her to see some stupid nutcracker performance!!!!
ok,
> the kids mom(her sis) died a year ago and he's 8...but truly he seems
to
> care more about video games and his friends than musicals. in the
past 10
> months he and she have gone out of their way to see each other exactly
> zero
> times....including turning down 2 of her invitations to visit us here
> because he was with friends or some such crap. these plans of mine
are so
> massive that i am truly truly truly offended and pissed off. im
seriously
> considering...sort of already done...breaking up over the matter. i
mean
> what if i had kidney surgery planned?....would she cancel on me to go
> watch
> a lakers game on tele with the kid? i cant handle this degree of
> 'sidelining'. am i wrong? i dont think so, but if someone does, pray
> tell.
[Blunderov]
Possibly there is some other underlying issue?
In my experience, one of the aspects of a brand new relationship is that
psychological barriers are lowered in order to facilitate the union, but
as the relationship matures some of them are sometimes re-erected in
order to re-assert a separate identity.
One of the wisest things I have ever read in this regard was by a famous
British divorce lawyer who said that REAL trouble in a relationship
occurs when the less dominant partner feels compelled to re-assert their
own identity. It may be that something of the sort is occurring in your
relationship?
I hope your problem is resolvable - good partners are hard to come by.
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RE: virus: sebby's g/f betrays him!!!
« Reply #3 on: 2003-12-18 07:17:25 » |
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Looks like she may being paying up now *precisely* because she has had no
contact with the kid for so long. Offer to bring the kid along on the trip.
That way you get to bring your girlfriend along, give the near orphan a
happy tip and get family discounts at thos appalling "family" chain
restaurants like TGI Fridays.
Kind regards
Jonathan "Solution Master" Davis
-----Original Message-----
From: owner-virus@lucifer.com [mailto:owner-virus@lucifer.com] On Behalf Of
Dr Sebby
Sent: 18 December 2003 08:44
To: virus@lucifer.com
Subject: virus: sebby's g/f betrays him!!!
...listen to this; sebby plans big adventure north including visit at
monteray aquarium, passing through S.F. and seeing the redwoods. followed
up by visiting my mother and sister and family in the san juan
islands...plenty of shopping and boating etc... and she sidelines me for 2
or 3 days(a critical amount of time) so she can appease the request of her
nephew - to go with her to see some stupid nutcracker performance!!!! ok,
the kids mom(her sis) died a year ago and he's 8...but truly he seems to
care more about video games and his friends than musicals. in the past 10
months he and she have gone out of their way to see each other exactly zero
times....including turning down 2 of her invitations to visit us here
because he was with friends or some such crap. these plans of mine are so
massive that i am truly truly truly offended and pissed off. im seriously
considering...sort of already done...breaking up over the matter. i mean
what if i had kidney surgery planned?....would she cancel on me to go watch
a lakers game on tele with the kid? i cant handle this degree of
'sidelining'. am i wrong? i dont think so, but if someone does, pray tell.
DrSebby.
"Courage...and shuffle the cards".
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Re:virus: sebby's g/f betrays him!!!
« Reply #4 on: 2003-12-20 04:54:28 » |
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Oh Sebby, tsk tsk. If your brother/sister died and left behind a kid, you'd probably feel at least somewhat obligated to be their companion when they requested. Or at least you should feel that way, since it's the right thing to do. Rejection at such a young age is hard enough on children, but harder yet when it comes right after their own MOMMY dies and especially from an auntie related to her. Have a heart for christ's sakes! No, not cigar or another shot dear, I said HEART! Selfish bastard!
xoxo,
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