I'm always mind-flipping, but you're up to your old debating tricks. I'll 
let the other memebers, if they're interested, come up with some qualities. 
If you're truly puzzled, try reading the following books: Compassion and 
Self Hate by Theodore Rubin; Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by 
John Gray; Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix, and The Ship That 
Sailed into the Living Room by Sonya Johnson.
Richard Brodie	RBrodie@brodietech.com	http://www.brodietech.com/rbrodie
Author, VIRUS OF THE MIND: The New Science of the Meme
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